One day, you find yourself in a relationship. The sky is blue, the sun is rising. The ungrateful creature (your significant other) cheats. A storm turns the blue sky gray, the rising sun quickly fades away. You find yourself lost in wonder, hate, doubt and despair. Pretty soon, a rainbow appears along with a new love. You find yourself in a new relationship. The sky is blue, the sun is rising. The ungrateful creature (your significant other) cheats. A storm turns the blue sky gray, the rising sun quickly fades away. You find yourself lost in wonder, hate, doubt and despair. Pretty soon, a rainbow reappears along with a new love. Evidently, you are trapped in a cycle of frustrated hope; a cycle of infidelity.
I must admit I’m absolutely disgusted with people that fail to be faithful. Why be in a relationship when you can’t be committed? Why hurt a person that cares for you with a passion?
Undoubtedly, our society is slowly developing an infidelity epidemic. Although “ninety-percent of Americans believe that cheating is morally wrong”, more than sixty-percent “admit they would have an affair if they knew they would never get caught. “ What kind of dishonest society are we becoming?
Frankly, I find the statistics and stories encountered quite astonishing. It’s amazing how far we are drifting apart from our own moral beliefs. I’m also amused with the idea of a cheating gene. What’s next? Lack of self-control gene?
In essence, we are who we want to be. If you choose to be disloyal and untrustworthy don't blame it on your DNA. Consider the fact that you aren't satisfied. Consider developing what I like to call courage and be a library of real books, not cardboard. Don't be like Tom Buchanan.
{Statistics and information used in this post can be found in the following websites: http://www.signs-of-a-cheater.com/infidelity-statistics.html ; http://www.infidelityfacts.com/infidelity-statistics.html}
Wow. First off that was really good Sarey. You are a great writer, and I agree completely. If you can't be commited don't let someone, who cares and/or loves you, believe you will be faithful and commited. Self-control, in a possibly unfaithful moment, is up to that peron, in a relationship, to be truth and not hurt their significant other.
ReplyDeleteSarey, you are an amazing writer and like you I am also disgusted by cheaters. If you find yourself committed to someone you don't feel the same, speak out.One should not be afraid to call it quits, or speak the truth. They say the truth is worth a hundred words, but why lie and cheat. There has to be other ways to show to that certain individual the truth behind a real relationship.
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